Has this ever happened to anyone? You see a guy or girl and you think that they're so hot. You've never actually spoken a word to them before, but you've seen them around numerous times. You have all these different thoughts running through your head like, "Wow that person is hot," or "I have to somehow find a way to talk to them." And then reality sets in, you actually meet them.
When you first start talking to this person everything seems normal. Solid conversation, a couple of jokes here and there and maybe even a little flirtation. But then you start seeing things that you never saw from your fantasy land far away. This person cracks bad jokes, maybe this person has something about them that turns you off, maybe the way they say certain things bothers you. But you try and look passed it.
Then comes the next round of reality. You realize that your personalities completely don't mesh together and this person has now gone from super hot, to average. Personality isn't there, the sex appeal you thought was there was just scotch guarded by good looks. Remember, just because someone is good looking doesn't mean they have sex appeal. And then you start picking on little things that annoy you like maybe the way this person walks or that they feel the need to hit your shoulder whenever they say something totally not funny to you, but hilarious to them.
Long story short, this person who you once thought to be a ridiculously good looking and fun person, is now just an average Joe who you want nothing to do with. I have seen it happen many times. "I liked them way better before I actually knew them," is the quote most often heard in this situation. It has happened to me, and it has happened to you. Sometimes people are way better in your mind than they actually are in reality.
I'll tell you a quick story, because I was thinking about this today. At work, two girls came in for applications at different times. Both of them were very nice and hell who am I kidding there tits were huge and I would have done them on the spot. So were instructed if people come in and look presentable and all that we put a little note or star on the application. So I did this for both of these snatches. It soon came to my attention that this was a horrible mistake. They might be the two most annoying people in the world. Drama queens is an understatement. Every little thing turns into a catastrophe and blown way out of proportion. This is why men should not be in a position to appoint anyone of authority.
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