Friday, August 19, 2011

Girlfriend Material

What is girlfriend material? Well, to start off, it's not a girl who you don't think is going to make you want to absolutely rip your hair out. All girls will make you want to rip your hair out, regardless of who they are. Just some make you want to do it less than others. There is a specific way a girl acts, which makes her girlfriend material. It's a bit difficult to explain so please try to follow. But I am going to give you how she acts, and show you how to get her.  

Let's say you meet a girl while you're out at a bar. Typically, you don't want to meet someone out a bar but for arguments sake, it's the easiest example to use. This girl is not surrounded by ten dudes because she's a little intimidating and she's not a whore. She's with two of her girl friends. That's key, you don't want a girl who's surrounded by ten dudes at once. If a girl is surrounded by a number of guys at one time, she has probably slept with, or did something with eighty percent of the guys she is surrounded by. No, that is not an opinion, that is normally the way it is. I'm a guy, I know this stuff. 

Back to the topic. So you see this girl with two of her girl friends and you want to go talk to her. You definitely need two friends of yours to offset her defense. When there is a group of girls together, they are using each other as a defense mechanism to keep sleezy guys away. You need to offset this defense by bringing some good offense. You tell your friends the one you want, and they flip a coin for the other two. It's that simple. 

Next you go over and begin the conversation. Start a conversation any way you can and make sure your friends are talkative. You need to have the entire group engaged in this if it's going to work. Boom! Everyone's laughing and having a good time. One of your friends takes one of her friends to dance, your other friend takes her other friend a little further away just to talk, and that leaves you with your girl. You have now found your way through the defense and into the red zone, but you're not in the end zone yet. 

Don't ask to dance, a girl like this will decline to dance every time. Tell her if she buys the first one, you'll buy the second one. If she accepts, she's interested. If she declines, she's not. You do not ask this girl to dance. She doesn't want to dance, she wants to talk; she's girlfriend material, remember? Keep a good flow of conversation going the entire night. You then get her number and you're in. This is not your typical girl who you're going to grind on the whole night and go back to her shore house. This girl is not going to leave with you. But you better text her not the day after, but very late afternoon of the second day. Keep her guessing, it makes you more interesting to her. She's girlfriend material, now you just need to figure out how to make her your girlfriend. I can get you to the show, you need to perform once you're there. 

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