What Are You Looking For At The Bar?

This is really more of a question of what you personally are looking to do. Do you want a one night stand? Are you trying to find a girlfriend or boyfriend? Or do you have no idea? What I am going to do is give you the scenarios, and explain the type of girl or guy you should look for.

One Night Stand: It's a personal favorite or mine and probably tons of other people. You're looking for someone to get it in with and never speak to again? Perfect. What do you look for? Girls, if you're looking for this then you already know that you really don't have to do much. Guys, what should you be looking for? It's pretty simple. Go after the girls who are having the most fun. Dancing like a maniac and backing that thing up on the dance floor, or letting dudes take body shots off of her on the bar are the preferred choices. Even the ones dancing on the bar. The girls who are out having the most fun aren't the ones looking for relationships. They want what you want. A quick wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Look here, and it should work.

Friend With Benefits: Girls, if you want a friend with benefits you have to act like a dude. Grab a guy, start dancing with him, and put him under your spell. You go home with this guy and you're the one who drunk texts him the next weekend after not speaking to him all week. No guy will ever say no to a drunk text, ever. You'll have your friend with benefits before you know it. Guys, find a girl who's drunk, but not sloppy. she'll dance with you all night and if she really knows how to work it, she's your girl. She likes to have fun, wants no strings attached, but wants someone there when she's feeling frisky. Look for exactly what I just told you and you'll have it.

Relationship: This is tough. It's tough to get into a relationship meeting someone at a bar. My normal rule is that you don't want to meet a girl at a bar. But you can meet some. If she's hanging out and drinking by the bar, very reserved with her friends, then yes, you can give her a shot. I have a friend who did this and he's still with the girl. He sent her over a couple of drinks, they clicked and the rest was history. Girls, if a guy sends you a drink, take the drink and talk to him. You never know someone until you actually have a conversation with them.

If you're just looking to have a good time, then you do this. Go out, get as drunk as possible, and let the chips fall where they may. Nights are usually more fun that way, and you might just run into something or someone and have an even better night. I'm not a genius, but doing that usually works for me.