What's a good night out and what's a bad night out? You could be out at a raging awesome place and still have a bad night. The same thing goes where you can be at a real shit hole and have an awesome night. Why? What is the reasoning behind this concept? Relax, sit back and listen while I try to explain to you why good nights and bad nights are all in the eye of the beholder.
Especially for guys, what are you trying to do pretty much every time you go out? You are trying to leave with a girl. That is your mission. You either succeed or you fail. The only in between is getting a number, or making out with her all over the bar then she goes home, but usually it's a success or a failure. You're old now, you're not looking for a make out session. You're looking to go home and go to pound town.
Now, a good night is in the eye of the beholder because you can go to a little shitty place and pick up a girl and it's an awesome night. On the flip side, you can go to an awesome place, yet leave empty handed and it's an awful night. It's all about if you went out and accomplished your mission or not. I think it's the same way with girls. I mean I can't see how much fun it is to get drunk off cosmo's and jump up and down with your girls in the middle of the dance floor. But maybe it's a girl thing.
So there you have it. A good night or a bad night is defined by you, the person. Did you complete your objective, or did you not complete your objective. It's that simple question that determines what type of night you had. If you accomplish the objective over 60% of the time, you're having some pretty good nights.
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