Ladies and Gentlemen, today I write to you regarding the people in this world who need some sort of therapy once they enter into a relationship. For both men and women, neither of them want to be needed. Once you think you need a significant other, you smother that person like a pack of lions on a gazelle. Being needy is not an attractive trait for guys or girls.
What is it that makes you suddenly think that you need someone? Why are you suddenly so dependent on this person? Seeing someone every day, texting every minute you’re not together and knowing exactly where one another is at all times is not only a lot of work, isn’t it also annoying? You can’t make the other person feel like they’re under house arrest and they need to report to someone every time they make a move. Doing this just suffocates the person and begins to make them resent you.
Another thing I have noticed is that when you say to your significant other that you are sorry for being annoying, you just don’t want to lose them; you need to realize that you’re pushing them away and therefore becoming the reason that you are losing what you didn’t want to lose. If you don’t get this by now then you probably need to go see a doctor of some sort because you’re a moron.
So what am I saying? I am saying that you should never need a guy or girl in your life. You should be able to depend on yourself and your friends. Men and women come and go, but it will always start and end with your family and friends. Don’t be needy; be independent. Plus when a guy or girl sees that you don’t actually need them, they are attracted to you more because of the ability to chase you. Always remember, the thrill is in the chase. Because without the chase all you have is easy half-assed sex that you didn’t have to work for; and no one actually enjoys that.
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