No One Can Control What Other People Put On Their Facebook...

 

You're perusing through your significant other's facebook page just for a routine check up when you suddenly see something from a member of the opposite sex. This ranges from someone just saying what's up to an inside joke and even to a link or a picture of some sort. Your first reaction is to get pissed off, but that's not the best way to go. 

Why is that not the best way to go? It's simple; no one can control what other people put on their facebook wall. Unless they just completely get rid of the whole wall thing, you're never gonna see that change. Getting mad at your guy or girl for something like this is like getting mad at your baby for shiting itself. They can't control it, so you shouldn't get mad. 

Now, if it says something that sounds like they have just recently been talking then don't over react as much as you want to. It could be anything. And it's okay to question this one if it looks fishy. But you need to distinguish between what looks fishy and what's just someone being stupid. 

To finish this I will just add that fighting over facebook will probably lead to a doomed relationship. You'll have plenty of better shit to fight about as your relationship goes on and fighting over something as stupid as facebook will only wear you down.