For most men approaching women is the absolute hardest thing in the world to do. Ask any guy and he's not gonna tell you it's easy and if he does he's a liar. It all stems from the fear of being shut down. Guys are afraid of rejection. But when you're approaching women you can't look at it as anything other than batting practice. If you swing and miss, you still get another pitch (unless of course it's the end of the round).
If a chick just blatantly shuts you down, just move to another one. And don't lower your standards after one or two tries. You don't lower your standards until you've been shut down at least four times. The main reason for this is so that you have ample time to get drunk enough where you won't even care that you went from hitting on tens to hitting on threes and maybe fours.
What do you do on the approach? Well it's different for everyone, but the topic of conversation is probably the same. See to women no matter what you're not gonna be interesting to them. This is why when you talk to them it's not about you, it's about them. To them they are the most interesting person on the planet. So buy her a drink and when you start talking to her don't talk about yourself, just talk about her. It'll make her feel special like you give a fuck and she's gonna go in the bathroom for a second and start rubbing down south for you.
It is all about the approach. You don't even need to be the one holding the conversation all you have to do is be asking questions about her the entire time and giving good responses. Next thing you know, instead of hitting seeing eye singles, you're hitting home runs consistently with less swinging and missing. You go from a .220 hitter to a .380 hitter with power. That's what it's about. It's all about the approach, once you find yours you won't be intimidated by any woman ever again.
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