So You Like Your Best Friend...

 

So guys, you have a girl who happens to be your "best friend" and you're wondering what the hell to do to get out of the friend zone. There are many questions asked on this topic and many questions about the proper way to approach this situation. Let me tell you now, there is no easy way to deal with this. I promise you, it's like anything else in life, you'll only get ONE shot to seal the deal, and once that passes, it's gone forever. The only thing that I can promise you is that you will get the shot, you just have to be able to recognize it and go for the kill. 

The first thing every guy thinks is, "Maybe I should just tell her how I feel." No fucking chance! DO NOT mention it to her in any way, shape or form. I'm telling you, once you mention it, you're fucked. Plain and simple. Chances are that you'll tell her this and it's not gonna come off the way you played it in your head over and over. Telling her will most likely make shit very awkward and then probably ruin the friendship at some point within the two weeks after you tell her how you feel. Don't tell her, it'll end up being a big mistake. 

So what should you do? Well, you need to remember that with women it's all about feelings. All women care about is how does it feel? Does it feel good? Does it feel comfortable? Does it feel right? They're all about feelings, which means that you need to make a move. You have to go in and kiss her. A girl who is your friend can change her whole perception about you with a kiss that feels right to her. I'm telling you, this is way less awkward than telling her how you feel, and it might set a spark off. It's your best chance of getting out of the friend zone. 

How do you go about this? Remember when I said you would get your one chance? You will get the chance to go in for the kill, you just need to recognize it. If you find her looking into your eyes like she's waiting for you to do something, that's your chance. If you can't recognize this, it's on you. If you let the chance pass you, you're forever in the friend zone. If it seems like it's the chance, go for it. You only get one shot at this, so you better make it a good one. I can only tell you what to do, I can't make the move for you. Now it's up to you to go out there, see the situation, and make the play. Godspeed.