Everyone knows the feeling. When you're out at a bar and you see a girl feeling a friend of yours, but your friend is hesitant to do anything about it. You tell your buddy, "What are you doing man? You get easily get with this chick." And your buddy will almost always say, "I know. I'm working on it, don't worry about me."
Actually, that is quite false my friend. See whenever a guy is hesitant about a chick who wants him, he probably isn't going to make a move. As soon as you hesitate, you're finished. It's like hesitating on a left hand turn with oncoming traffic. If you hesitate, you're fucked. Women can only deal with so much hesitation before they realize they can probably get with someone else in the crowded bar of five hundred people.
Basically, you only have a small window of opportunity to cash in on a woman who's feeling you. Trust me, when a girl is interested, you know she's interested. She starts talking to you, she starts smiling, she plays with her hair a little bit, and some will even throw in a fake laugh. If those things are happening during your conversation then you need to capitalize on it quickly. Your friends should not have to come up to you and tell you that you can definitely slam this chick.
What happens if you hesitate too long. She'll most likely move on to someone who's not a friend of yours, but an acquaintance. This is an effort to let you know what you could have had, while making you feel like a jackass for not pouncing on her like a lion pounces on a gazelle. What does it lead to for you? Well it usually leads to you drinking even more heavily and going home with a chick who's about the size of a wooly mammoth. Lesson learned: He who hesitates is lost.
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