Getting cheated on is something that absolutely sucks balls, but we've all been there before. What sucks the most about it is that there really is nothing you can do. If you get cheated on once, that's on the other person. If you get cheated twice by two different people that's just bad luck. But if you've been cheated on more than twice by different people, then it might actually be on you.
No one likes to be accountable for their actions. All people wanna do is just blame the other person for being an asshole when they get cheated on. But when it happens multiple times from different people, it might just be your fault. "How can that be, I didn't cheat." Yeah, but you were probably such a fucking maniac that you drove the other person to cheat on you.
How does that work? It starts with you yourself having a couple of screws loose. You're always smothering them, you don't want them even interacting with other people, and if they're not with you then you just assume they're cheating on you. Acting like this is going to drive your boyfriend or girlfriend to cheat on you. Why? Because they want to break up with you, but they don't know how. Therefore cheating on you and then telling you forces you to break up with them.
You can't just smother a person and make them resent you so much that they end up cheating. Sometimes that's why people cheat because of a psychotic boyfriend or girlfriend. If it's happened to you multiple times it might be you being crazy, or you just don't know how to pick them. But either way, it's not always completely the other person's fault.
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